If you are a woman, or if you know any women, go over here and read the post titled Evil Necessities:
And then, if you have anything to say about courage or strength or generosity or humour or grace in the face of adversity and fear, you can come back over here and tell me about it. Though in this instance you won't be telling me anything I don't already know. Since the fool woman has turned off her comments, I promise to make her come over here and read what you have to say.
But you'd also damn well better be prepared to tell me you have the sense to heed her warning and take her excellent advice.